Everyone wants a happy relationship.
I mean, who doesn't? He must be an idiot if he doesn't!
And luckily, I'm NOT that idiot. HoHoHo!
So what is happiness?
Heart these two definitions lots. :)
"Happiness comes only from appreciating what you have right now.
You can be happy by appreciating your troubles because they are helping you to build your character." - Harriet Meyerson
"To be truly happy, you must let go of what it means to be happy." - Confucius
In every relationship,
everyone hopes for a happy ending.
Mostly for the "first-timer".
When they first get together,
they will assume they will be together till the end.
But they never know, things changes after high school.
Things changes when we step in college/university.
You know, kids nowadays even fight for a boy!
But I guarantee they will regret how childish it is.
That boy IS NOT gonna be your future!
Well unless you got pregnant.
I'm NOT discriminating.
It's a MUST to get marry if you're pregnant.
Both must be responsible!!
Break up is a very common thing during high school.
My dad called it - puppy love.
And after the break up,
you learn how to manage your relationship.
You understand how to manage your feelings.
You also will understand how the other half feels and thinks.
So as you grow up,
the way you think matures with your age too.
You'll learn to appreciate and love more.
And this add marks to your relationship.
Well, at least this is how I think. =/
Do you guys agree with me too?
It happens to me.
During high school, Ifuckingidiotly thought he was my only.
And then things changed.
I know new friends when I change standards.
Then after that, when I step in college.
Things changed too.
But when I get older, my thinking will get more mature.
Couples have lots of topic to start a quarrel.
Ex lah, opposite sex friends lar, this lar, that lar.
There's a website even teaching us how to quarrel properly. Wtf
Some examples of how to response in an argument from the website :
"This is ridiculous!"- bad
"I don't like that you just said" - good
"I am not going to explain anything to anyone!" - bad
"I feel like you don't want to understand me" - good
So much to learn in a relationship.
You learn how to tolerate.
You learn how to control your anger.
You learn how to communicate properly.
You learn how to be a good partner.
Past is the past.
Now is more important than the past.
So appreciate the one in front of you now.
Did I say wrong anything? Hmmm
I ❤hearts❤ Dear lots lots. XD
Anyway I deleted my last post.
I personally thought it's kinda weird. =___=
I mean, who doesn't? He must be an idiot if he doesn't!
And luckily, I'm NOT that idiot. HoHoHo!
So what is happiness?
Heart these two definitions lots. :)
"Happiness comes only from appreciating what you have right now.
You can be happy by appreciating your troubles because they are helping you to build your character." - Harriet Meyerson
"To be truly happy, you must let go of what it means to be happy." - Confucius
In every relationship,
everyone hopes for a happy ending.
Mostly for the "first-timer".
When they first get together,
they will assume they will be together till the end.
But they never know, things changes after high school.
Things changes when we step in college/university.
You know, kids nowadays even fight for a boy!
But I guarantee they will regret how childish it is.
That boy IS NOT gonna be your future!
Well unless you got pregnant.
I'm NOT discriminating.
It's a MUST to get marry if you're pregnant.
Both must be responsible!!
Break up is a very common thing during high school.
My dad called it - puppy love.
And after the break up,
you learn how to manage your relationship.
You understand how to manage your feelings.
You also will understand how the other half feels and thinks.
So as you grow up,
the way you think matures with your age too.
You'll learn to appreciate and love more.
And this add marks to your relationship.
Well, at least this is how I think. =/
Do you guys agree with me too?
It happens to me.
During high school, Ifuckingidiotly thought he was my only.
And then things changed.
I know new friends when I change standards.
Then after that, when I step in college.
Things changed too.
But when I get older, my thinking will get more mature.
Couples have lots of topic to start a quarrel.Ex lah, opposite sex friends lar, this lar, that lar.
There's a website even teaching us how to quarrel properly. Wtf
Some examples of how to response in an argument from the website :
"This is ridiculous!"- bad
"I don't like that you just said" - good
"I am not going to explain anything to anyone!" - bad
"I feel like you don't want to understand me" - good
So much to learn in a relationship.
You learn how to tolerate.
You learn how to control your anger.
You learn how to communicate properly.
You learn how to be a good partner.
Past is the past.
Now is more important than the past.
So appreciate the one in front of you now.
Did I say wrong anything? Hmmm
I ❤hearts❤ Dear lots lots. XD
Anyway I deleted my last post.
I personally thought it's kinda weird. =___=
xoxo
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